Eugenio
was
the second in the family to marry. He married Mariana González,
daughter of Manuel R. González and Francisca Ramón. The
wedding occurred on February 11, 1921, at Rancho La Gloria in a sillar
house that still stands. Don Carlos González and his family lived
for many years in this house13. When Eugenio married, a room
was added to the south side of the house. Sadly, today the house is in
ruins and abandoned.
Eleuterio
was
the next to marry. He married Zulema Palacios, a daughter of José
Palacios and María Salinas, on July 4, 1929, and they lived in
the center room next to Eugenio's room.
Guadalupe
married
Hipólito Sáenz around 1936. Hipólito worked in a
large farm near Petronila. The couple lived in a small house provided
by the farm owner. Later they moved to a house near Praxedis's ranch.
Here Hipólito farmed his own land, at the same time working as
a hand on the neighboring farms and selling fruit at gatherings.
Eustorgio
married
Rosaura Sáenz from Guardado de Arriba, Tamaulipas. She was the
daughter of Felix Sáenz and Ana María Olivarez. They married
on February 18, 1933, in Guardado de Arriba and lived at Rancho San Andrés.
Eustorgio was the youngest son in the family. By that time, all the other
married members of the family had left to live on their own, so he took
over all the work that had to be done on the ranch, such as the planting
and harvesting of crops.
Eustorgio also
performed one of the most important tasks--the hauling of drinking water
from Tía Plácida's Rancho de Agua Dulce. The first well
drilled at Rancho San Andrés became salty around 1919. It seems
that the well lining tube was ruptured, and salt water seeped through.
Only the horses and cattle could drink the water. Eustorgio hitched a
pair of mules to the wagon carrying the three wooden barrels, or barricas.
The team drew close to the water cistern at Agua Dulce. With a bucket,
Eustorgio filled all three barrels and covered them with a heavy duck
canvas tied to the top. This kept the barrels from spilling too much water
on the trip. Sometimes Eustorgio was lucky, and all he had to do was move
close to an overflow pipe and move the wagon a little closer each time
to fill the next barrel. These barrels remained on the wagon at all times.
Anastacia
,
the youngest daughter, married Abelino Sáenz, who was from Guardado
de Arriba. He was a brother of Rosaura
.
They married at the church in Santo Niño on May 9, 1937. The wedding
ceremony took place at this ranch, and, like all the weddings of that
time period, it lasted three days. They slaughtered a large cow, then
barbecued the meat in a hole covered with tin and a fire built over it,
to make a pit barbecue, or barbacoa de pozo. They slaughtered fourteen
goats, or cabritos, and cooked the meat in the iron kettles, or
pailas. Many neighbors came to help make the tortillas, placing
them in washtubs called baños de tortillas to feed all the
people traditional afternoon snack, or merienda, with pan de
polvo, which are the modern-day wedding cookies, and a cup of hot
chocolate. At night came the dance with the Sáenz orchestra playing.
The visitors slept in their cars Saturday night to be there for the wedding
the next day.
Anastacia was
the last to marry, leaving Mamá María
and
Flavia
alone.
Anastacia said Flavia lamented, "Now we are alone, Mamá María
y yo, and there is no one to drive us anymore to visit or go for rides."
In the early
1930s, Eleuterio and Eugenio each had their own houses. Eugenio's was
located in Rancho La Gloria across from Tía Rosa's house. Eustorgio
bought a house from Rancho San Vicente about 1943 and moved it to the
center west end of the field at Rancho San Andrés. There he drilled
a well that provided good drinking water. Mamá María then
moved her home close to Eustorgio's and lived there a few years. In the
early 1950s, Eustorgio moved his house from Rancho San Andrés to
a piece of land across the road from Praxedis's
house.
He lived there about three years and then moved his house to Alice.
After Eustorgio
moved, Mamá María and Flavia were left alone at Rancho San
Andrés once more. They decided to move their house close to Praxedis's
house as Eustorgio had done. Mamá María and Flavia lived
here for about ten years. Flavia was the only child in the family did
not marry but stayed home with her mother. She was a very good cook, an
excellent housekeeper, and a very tidy person, and she acted as hostess
when members of the family visited her and Mamá María. They
took care of each other and missed each other when one went to visit or
stay with relatives for a few days.
Mamá María
died on July 20, 1961, leaving Flavia alone. A couple of years later,
Flavia's house was moved to San Diego, so she could be close to her sister
Natalia
and
medical help in case of sickness.
Here the stories
of Rancho El Fresnillo and Rancho San Jose end. The history of my mother
and father's families is one of families living a pastoral life of beauty
and surviving the obstacles of life with love, caring, and unity. They
left an example of family life and values that will be hard for future
generations to emulate.